Turns out there was an easy way all along...

So, going through a separation and pending divorce pretty much sucks arse, especially when you're someone who doesn't enter into marriage lightly AND has a beautiful innocent little girl you have to spend every waking minute worrying about.  The icing on the cake? Living under the same roof with your husband turned enemy co-parent.

I wonder if there's a way to make this a much more pleasant, positive and happy experience in my life? Oh wait, I knoooooow how I can make it easier...follow his advice and "Remove the emotion" from the situation.  OH YAH, that's reallllly going to happen because there is absolutely no emotion a woman and Mama-bear would be feeling through this life changing situation right?  Is it me? Or do men have the LUXURY, gift and ability to just flick a switch and turn it all off that us women just weren't born with?  Seriously, who can do that shite?

I've been stretching, scouring, and praying for any little positive ounce of anything that can come from this experience.....with some Shaw-KING results.

1) If you want to easily and effortlessly lose weight and do a detox...separation and divorce,  is soooo the way to go. Easiest diet ever.

2) If you want to find out who your true friends are and be amazed that you have great friends you didn't even realize noticed or cared about you in their lives? "Sep & Div" is the way to go. (yah, I said Sep & Div, why not give it a nice little slang twist...it's a part of me now, after all.)

3) If you want to find out what people really think about the man you committed to spending the rest of your life with and had a baby with? "Sep & Div"...foooor sure.

4) If you want to have a reason to be over the moon that you are a WOMAN? "Sep & Div".  Holy moly batman, the amount of women who have stopped in their own busy days to email me, phone me, come see me, check on me and our daughter and be there for me UNCONDITIONALLY...is mind boggling. Women really do stick together and it's during the hard stuff that you realize just how important that is. THANK YOU LADIES!

5) If you want to stop believing and attracting negativity and start attracting amazing new people into your life? "Sep & Div" is the way to go.

If you want to feel no pain or hurt or sadness or frustration or annoyance or anger or disgust or shame or embarrassment then DON'T "Sep & Div". It wouldn't be a good fit.

Ramble of the day...complete.

xo